| Location | Dagenham Essex |
| Age | 37 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 23/06/1971 |
| Date of Death | 19/01/2009 |
| Visitors | 2,495 since 21/01/2009 |
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My best friend Jane sadly died on the 19th of Jan after battling for 3 years with a rare type cancer called a sarcoma, Jane was just 37 years old, she leaves behind her two brave and strong children who she loved with all her heart, they were her life and she battled so bravely for them, Jamie 17, and Adele is only 15..
Jane never once asked WHY never moaned even though she suffered tragic pain most days..
Jane was my best friend, We were soul mates and even thought I only knew Jane for about 3 and a half years me and her felt like we’d known each other all our life’s.. On the first ever hospital appointment I went on with Jane the doctors at the Royal Mardsen told her she was terminal and that she only had 5 years to live, I was devastated and cried all the way home but Jane took it like a pinch of salt.. From that day I went to every hospital appointment, she was doing well.. For 22 months the chemo was still shrinking her tumour, But the next time we went the tumour started to grow again we were expecting it as the chemo only works for so long and once again Jane was fine with it.. I have never known anyone so strong as Jane and in all this time and in the deepest of conversations Jane never once asked why..
Jane passed away at 18:15 at St Francis Hospice two weeks after she was admitted xx
Me and Jane went every where together she loved being out in my new car with the bass blaring windows open so everyone could see her.. Jane was one of the funniest people I have ever known, She was loud and proud and had A LOT to say, She never stopped talking and it didn’t matter who she talked to either.. She just loved to talk..
Losing Jane has broken my heart, I stayed with her till the last few moments of her life, She suffered in the worst way but she never let go until her body couldn’t take no more.. She held on for her babies.. As I said she is the bravest person I have ever known in my life.. I will never ever forget Jane and she has given me the honour of being soul guardian to her children Jamie and Adele.. I will always keep my promise to you Jane!
In my heart you will always remain, They might of taken you but no-one will ever take my beautiful special memories of you.. You were one in a million and a very true and loyal friend to me.. I will never ever forget you and I wouldn’t want to either as you were a very big part of my life.. I know you were glad to have me as your best friend as I was you xx
Love you night CCC xxxx
Sam xxxx
Sad times x
Im sitting here not believing it's been a year today that the Angels came for you.. Getting all them backflashes of you being in the hospice.. Remembering all them speical little things you told me and all the special little things you did.. I know you dont want us being sad but its only natrual because you were a massive part of our lifes.. I miss you terribly Jane and life just isnt the same without you.. Our friendship meant everything to me and still does and no-one could have what we had.. Soul mates never die CCC xx
I hope your at peace now because if anyone deserves it its you..
Love you always and forever
Your best friend xx
Nearly a year.. :o(
Just sitting here think about this time last year when we were all at the hospice by your bedside, Kissing you having cuddles stroking your hair and talking to you telling you how much I loved you and what our friendship meant to me..
I will always keep what you said to me deep within my heart! I remember it dearly I cried my eyes out because I knew you were going and never coming back.. That conversation was the hardest I had and you still kiss me and told me not to cry because you hated me being upset..
Everyday I miss you, everyday I talk to you, But everyday I smile because I had you even if it was for a short while.. I miss everything about you Jane, you have left such a massive void in my life, I was robbed a my best friend but gained a dear Angel to watch over me and guide me.. Rest Peacefully Jane.. Love you always and forever as you know.. From one best friend to another.. Love ya night CCC xxxxxxxxx
Luv u auntie jane this world aint the same without u
This is our first christmas and it just wont be the same without u u was the best auntie in the whole wide world and I miss u so much
U will always be in my heart and I will never forget u
X x R.I.P x X
Love you xx
Well it was my first birthday without you and it was really hard.. In a way I was glad to be ill so I didnt have to see anyone and try and be all happy.. All I kept remembering was what happened last year.. You know what I really missed as well? My balloon from you lol But I know you were with me Jane..
Me your Mum, Grace Adele and your brother Joe went to your memorial service it was a really nice service.. We all lit candles and they dimmed the lights and we sung Silent Night and we all got really tearful, but only because we miss you so much.. I know you said in your message to me that you dont want no more tears but its hard when you miss someone who was so close to you and you miss them with all your heart..
I couldnt believe the things the Clarvoyant told me, it was like someone had told her and then she told me.. It was shocking and I totally believe everything she said come from you..
also please stay close to Grace she could really do with you being by her side guiding her.. She is really emotional lately (you know why).. Oh Jamie has a job yay im really pleased for him..
Im gonna go now Jane but I love ya dont I xx
Soul mates NEVER die x
Love ya night CCC xxxxxxxxxx
Hiya Jane..
Grr I am really missing you alot lately.. I keep think about this time last year when you were trying to arrange my birthday for me and even though you were in all that pain, it never stopped you..
It's gonna be hard on my birthday because it was my birthday last year when I rushed you into hospital and they told me you only had days to live.. And I had to break that terrible news to you and the kids.. I will never ever forget that day Jane.. We just cuddled and cried I couldnt believe what that doctor told me.. Even though we knew you were terminal, neither of us expected it to be so soon and right ontop of Christmas..
Your Mum is doing well Jane I know you are so proud of her the way she has coped, no-one expects to bury their children..
Adele is doing well, Ive got her on a new course and she is finally getting paid for it which is nice for her to get her own bit of money..
And Jamie is alright as well and seems to be happy..
And as for me.. Well im missing you like mad.. I so miss not having my best friend here anymore, same days are easier than others and then I get my bad days when im just angry that your no longer here.. But to be honest im glad to of had you Jane even if it was for just a short time.. But you will ALWAYS remain in my heart and thoughts and no-one can stop that.. I sit and wonder what you think about whats gone on since you have been gone.. People are s**t Jane thats all I can say.. And I know you would be the first one to agree with me.. But all I can say is I know I did my best by you and your children and I know you would agree too..
I love you Jane.. Always and Forever
Soul Mates NEVER die xxxxxx
Memories.. lol
Im just sitting here going through aload of different thoughts about the things we got up.. Remember that night down the alley in my road when that black geezer Chelsea was proper chatting you up and you were getting really embarrassed lol
And I set a bet with you about calling Jamie that bad word lol you lasted one day hahahha! I still have the recording of you saying it.. I miss not hearing that from you..
And the day when we were sitting on the steps of the hospital taking stupid photo's trying to hid out chins and we bumped heads but I managed to take the picture just in time lol And always taking the piss out of people on the train to the hospital lol Taking mug shots of random people.. I miss these times!
And the night I got really drunk and I was being sick in the toilet and you came in and was rubbing my back making sure I was ok.. and the birthday dinner you did for me at your house and you and the kids done me loads of banners and balloons and even got me a birthday cake.. I will always miss not being able to make special banners with you, we loved doing them didnt we lol
I could seriously write a book on the things we got up too, I have so so so many brilliant and unforgettable memories with you.. Memories that no-one can ever take away from me..
I love you Jane and I miss you more and more each day, Can you imagine if you were never ill the fun we would of had throughout our life lol
But even though you are not here I still think of you what ever im doing things wishing you were here to share them with me..
Remember Jane.. BEST FRIENDS never die.. EVER!!
Love you always and forever
Your bestest friend
Sam xxxxxxx
Love ya night CCC.. Sleep tight GNGBSD xxxxx
Miss you Jane xx
Sorry I havnt been on here for a while but as you probably know I havnt stopped, Its always one thing after another..
Adele did SOOO well in her exams we are so proud of her, We had a lovely meal and a drink to celebrate she is such a credit to you.. She is off to college next week wow dont time go so quickly, She is growing into a lovely young woman Jane..
Jane I tried my best with Jamie but you know what he is like does his own thing, he is out of the area now which is a good thing considering what is going on.. I think it's for the best I told him a while ago to go.. We miss him alot but me and Adele are gonna go and meet him soon..
And it looks like were gonna be moving very soon so hopefully he can come stay with us..
I miss you Jane so much, there isnt an hour that passes where your not in my thoughts..And I know your with me alot because I feel you close especially at night when I light your candle and talk to your picture.. So much has happened in the last 8 months that I wanted to share with you..
But I know one day we will be reunited best friends always are *smiles*
Ive got my operation on the 20th please stay close and let everything go ok, Im pretty worried about it but i'll be ok.. Please watch over your Mum as well as she misses you terribly, and watch over Grace too I think she is having a tough time at the moment..
Anyway im gonna go now, But I just want you to know that I miss you so bad!! And I love you so much too..
Love ya night CCC xxxxx
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